Tuesday, December 7, 2010
1. Ask a young person what their opinion is on something. It can be in relation to an important global issue, a recent movie they have seen, or something more personal to their life. Adults and young people alike are more likely to engage in a conversation when someone is interested in what they have to say.
2. Ask them to help you. I know nothing makes me feel better than to know that someone needs my help, young people can gain that same self of empowerment and self confidence from being asked to help out with something. Anytime two or more people work together on a project is a great opportunity to make a meaninful connection!
3. Give them your undivided attention. This one is HUGE and not as easy at it sounds to pull off. Anytime a caring adult can sit down with a young person and give them their undivided attention it sends an important message: You Are Important To Me! In order for this one to be successful it requires, one on one time, no distractions (turn off the tv, radio in the car, and put down that phone!), and a good listening ear!
Enjoy your week and have fun supporting and encouraging the young people in your life!
Thursday, December 2, 2010
My strategy this time of the year is to schedule in time to do absolutely NOTHING! Yes, that's right. I am blocking off afternoons and evenings to simply do NOTHING! How else are we going to have time to recharge, rest, and really enjoy this Christmas season? There are some commitments that we can do without. If you have the opportunity to "opt out" of one or two seasonal celebrations, I say GO FOR IT! Sit down, have a hot chocolate with your family, watch a classic Christmas movie, go outside for a wintery walk, wrap presents or make some cookies just for FUN!
Slow down this Christmas and take the time to ponder what it is about this time of year that is truly special for you and your family!
Enjoy the Holidays!
Thursday, November 4, 2010
How was your Halloween? Our kids didn't even need to hide their cute (or creepy) costumes under a snow suit this year! I hope you enjoyed walking around your neighbourhoodd, talking to your neighbours and enjoying a fun (and spooky) holiday!
As we prepare for the next holiday season reember to make the most of sunny warm days, down time with your family and take the opportunity to connect with your community when the opportunity arises. If you are looking for an opportunity to give back to people within your community who might not be looking forward to the Christmas season, get in touch with Tina at Christmas Elves. In addition to donations of food, baby items and unwrapped Christmas gifts they are always looking for volunteers to make Christmas brighter and more joyful for those less fortunate, right here in Beaumont!
Take care and remember you ARE and ASSET BUILDER!
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
When we are surrounded by friends and family during a holiday weekend like Thanksgiving, we are keenly aware of the importance of the relationships in our lives. Even if we are involved in a long term committed relationship, the majority of people have a much larger network of friends and support. The same need for more connection, support and relationships holds true for children.
As our children become older and develop interests along with their gifts and ablities, the time is going to come that we as parents are unequipped to be everything that our child needs. We see evidence of this when they have music teachers, coaches or instructors that have expertise more specialized than what we posess. Time spent with these kinds of people can offer more than strictly technical instruction. When young people have the chance to learn from, interact and be listened to by other caring adults in their lives they experience greater self esteem and connection to their community.
We don't have to look very far to see other options for these caring adults for our children to connect with. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, neighbours and family friends are other people that can offer a listening ear or advice to your child. The more people in your child's life that offers unconditional support and some special attention helps build your child into a confident and contributing member of our community.
We can also be that extra support person to other young people in our lives. Take the time to get to know your child's friends, volunteer to coach a sports team or mentor a young person in your community and be that caring adult for other kids in your neighbourhood.
Have a great week and keep helping kids develop, one asset at a time!
Monday, September 27, 2010
1. Teach your children the language of emotion. Help them to describe how they are feeling, this will help them understand how they are feeling and communicate those feelings to you, their parent.
2. If your child is feeling angry, sad or really excited try to find out why. If they don't want to tell you why, make sure you know that you are there for them and will be ready to listen when they are ready to share. Sometimes pushing your child to share when they are not ready can do exactly the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish. Patience is key!
3. Remember eye contact. We all know how it feels when someone we are talking to seems distracted or not really listening. It is every bit as frustrating and minimizing when we do it to our children. Get down to their level, take the time to really listen and let them know you really care.
4. Careful with jokes and teasing. What might seem like harmless fun from our perspective might feel very different from the perspective of our youngster. Watch carefully for signs that jokes or teasing is making your child uncomfortable or hurting their feelings.
5. Let the emotions of your child come out without judgement or shame. Scolding a child for crying or being angry simply teaches them their feelings are not valid and they should keep them inside. It won't stop them from feeling that way, only prevents them from sharing them freely. Even if you feel the issue is trivial, let them express their sorrow without judgement or feelings of shame.
Of course this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to Positive Family Communication. There have been hundres of books written on this very subject. These are some great starting points and ideas for places to start in creating an environment in your home, were communicationis honest and helpful. Have a great week and remember, everyone can be an asset builder!
Monday, September 20, 2010
Lets start with #1 Family Support. For a young person to feel like they have family support means they have a safe home and family life. They feel like they are valued as a member of the family and would describe their family as a "safe place". Young people need to be around people that love, care for, appreciate, and accept them. The family unit regardless of what that looks like is the first and most important place a child should feel all of those things. We can all say we love our children...think about how your child knows that to be true. Think about how your child knows they are appreicated and accepted for who they are. Parents really set the tone for how these important components of family life are communicated and more importantly demonstrated. Telling your child you love them, listening to what they have to say about school, interests and life in general, and letting them know you appreciate all that they are and do are all great ways to build Family Support.
Remember, there are no "butts" in the 40 Developmental Assets! Be an Asset Builder Today!
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Check out this video to learn more about Developmental Assets and their importance for youth!
For more information about becoming an Asset Builder for you Child. Come to the Parent Workshop Series on Monday September 20th at 7pm at the Beaumont Community Youth Centre. Phone 780 929 3327 to register or for more information.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Friday, August 27, 2010
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
The event starts out with a free community Barbecue then a variety of games and activities that the whole family will enjoy. Bring your blankets and lawn chairs because at sundown there will be a viewing of the critically acclaimed movie: AVATAR! Before the movie begins you will be able to enjoy a short film explaining developmental assets and the approach Beaumont FCSS staff will be taking to promote them in your very own community.
Leduc Radio will be broadcasting live on site, there will be a concession open during the movie for yummy snacks, and lots of acivities and games for the whole family to enjoy while learning more about the 40 deveopmental assets. This is an event not to be missed. So tell all your friends and bring the whole family down for this first ever event of its kind right here in Beaumont, Alberta. If you would like more information contact the FCSS office at 780 929 3327.
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Friday, July 2, 2010
If you would like a sneak peek of the actual list of developmental assets, here it is! Check back here over the summer for interesting ideas on how to promote developmental assets in your family, neighbourhood and community! Stay cool out there everyone! And be sure to Uncover you Assets!
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Later in the summer the Family and Community Support Services will be holding a very special event to help inform Beaumont residents about the Developmental Asset Survey Results! A fun filled day of family events, an evening showing of a movie in addition to other activities is planned for August 19th, so mark your calendar and be sure to check back here for more information leading up to this event!
Have a great week everyone and see you back here in July!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
It has been a really hectic couple weeks for me doing, learning and sharing FCSS stuff over the last few weeks.
I attended a training session developed and facilitated by the Impact Society. H2 is the next phase in the HEROES curriculum that we (the Beaumont HEROES team) is currently delivering to grade seven students at J.E. la Pointe school. The feedback from the HEROES program has been overwhelmingly positive. Students and teachers alike are seeing the difference this program is making in the lives of students and in the school community at J.E. Very exciting stuff. If you would like more information about how to become a HEROES instructor contact the Impact Society in Calgary, more volunteer instructors would allow us to deliver the program to more students throughout the year right here in Beaumont. To discuss the possiblity of becoming a part of the Beaumont HEROES team call Kim or Jenny at 780 929-3322 or email firstname.lastname@example.org
Next up was a two day workshop on the topic of Solution Focused Therapy. I have always utilized some of the concepts of solution focused therapy in my work with youth and families. However, I have a new understanding and respect for its usefulness not only working with individuals, families and youth, but also the potential in working with different groups as well. If you are at all interested in learing about Solution Focused Therapy, check out Solution Talk and Nancy MConkey who I have had the privelege of studying under for two separate workshops. Fantasitc facilitator, highly skilled and knowledgeable in the area of family counseling and working with school boards and so much more. Check out her link (provided) for more information.
The end of last week wrapped up on a high note. I had the great opportunity to attend (along with several others from the Town of Beaumont FCSS, local teachers and students) Thrive Canada's National Conference out in St. Albert. St. Albert has really shown themselves to be leaders in the areas of positive youth developemt and helping to build kids 40 Developmental Assets. The two days that I was able to attend were filled with valuable programming ideas, inspiring stories and dynamic speakers who are leaders in the area of child and youth work. Check out the links to learn more about this area of research and keep it here at the FCSS blog to keep informed about the upcoming programs, events and community development ideas to help Beaumont become a town that celebrates the success of its youth and offers many opportunities for its young citizens to thrive!
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
What are you most looking forward to this spring? Getting out in the yard, going for family walks, outdoor soccer season, or maybe it's getting back out on your bike that gets you excited at this time of year. I'm thankful for the longer daylight hours, warmer weather(on the days we get some), and the knowledge that this spring, my family is opting out of organized activities. I am really looking forward to family walks with our dogs, bike riding, and doing activities like swimming, playing soccer, foot ball etc. as a family and on our own timetable. If you're like me and are looking forward to some "down-time" as the weather warms up drop me a line or share a story of how it has impacted your family in a positive way!
Don't forget our Family Parent Workshop Series is still going strong. Our next installment is April 19th at 7pm at the Beaumont Community Youth Centre. The topic in April is Learning Disabilities and your Child. Come out for an informative evening, enjoy some time with other parents from your community, and have your questions answered about this important topic.
Till next time,
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Monday, February 22, 2010
Tonight is the next installment of Parents Empowering Parents. A support group aimed at helping parents of youth and young adults that are struggling with addictions and or drug abuse. Even if you are concerned that your youth might be using alcohol or drugs, please come out for an informative and supportive evening. I have included a poster with some more information and the most current meeting dates for 2010.
Enjoy what's left of February and like always if you would like more information about programming for youth and families within the Town of Beaumont, please drop me a line or give me a call. 780 504-5969. Have a great week!
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Monday, January 18, 2010
The Red Cross: This link to the Canadian Red Cross provides information about how to help and the current status of the situation in Haiti.
World Vision: A humanitarian organization that has been doing incredible work in all parts of the developing world. This organization has been in Haiti for many years and is working hard to help with the devastation in the aftermath of the earthquake. This group of dedicated individuals will be staying in Haiti on a long-term basis and helping with the rebuilding of homes, schools and communities.
Eight things to keep in mind about Haiti: This is an interesting blog post that explains botht the current situation in Haiti as well as some interesting information about their history and their future needs as a country.
Partners in Health: This organization has been working in Haiti for over 20 years. Check ou their link for more information on the current crisis and ideas on how to best help the people in this country.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Happy New Year Everyone!